This is my son VJ. He has been away from home for a year today. We love him. But he's such hard work!! He went away to make his fortune. He is doing just that but he hasn't worked it out that to make it work you can't spend more than you earn. Maybe one day, just one day soon, it'll all make sense. Why do I constantly have that Coldplay song in my head that sings "the hardest part is letting go, not taking part." Is someone trying to tell me something?